1. There are some things that are totally in a woman’s control:

Let’s take a walk down the hall of shame:

• Being boring.
• Being stuck up.
• Using her phone all the time during the date.
• Fetishizing my Asian ethnicity (yes, it can happen to guys too).
• Acting and talking arrogantly.

2. And there are some things that are out of your control:

The following reasons were due to other issues, but the girls themselves were good:

• Studying at a faraway college, and only visiting town every now and then.
• She went through a recent break-up and didn’t feel ready to commit.
• Moving to a different city or state.
• Moving to a different country.
• Home country was different (I met her while visiting that country).