23 Crappy Things Dudes Do When They’re Only Using You For Your Body

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1. Once you start having sex, he won’t look you in the eyes. At all. But he’ll have no problem staring at your tits and your ass the entire time.

2. He never puts you into intimate positions. He’ll stick to safe positions, like Doggy style, that make it impossible for him to see your face.

3. He never even tries to make you orgasm. His pleasure is the only thing he gives a crap about.

4. There’s never any foreplay. He doesn’t care if you’re wet enough, as long as he’s hard enough. That’s why, sometimes, sex is actually painful for you.

5. You go down on him all the time, but you can’t even remember the last time that he went down on you.

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

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