It’s an issue of respect. Before I got married, I rarely found a girl that I respected enough to want to date. This has a lot to do with intelligence, hobbies, and ambition. I’m not going to date a girl who is worse than me at everything. Likewise, I’m not going to date a girl who is going nowhere in her life and has no plan. On the other hand, if she’s at least attractive she is hook-up material, but not someone I would want to spend time around with my clothes on.