Because you were too passive about your own love life.
You’ve never struggled with making friends – you have a very approachable and magnetic nature. But when it comes to romantic prospects, you’ve always retreated, stayed quiet, and preferred that other people make the big moves. The reason you didn’t fall in love in 2017 isn’t because you aren’t a warm and enjoyable person to be around – the reason is that you wanted to just sit back and wait for other people to make choices and take risks and put themselves out there. You’re not going to have much luck in 2018 unless you decide to take your dating life into your own hands.
Because every time you were dating someone or were in a relationship, you tried to run the whole thing yourself.
Your natural gift for leadership is typically a very positive quality – except for when it negatively impacts your relationships. The problem is that you’ve forgotten in the past that a relationship is about the mutual support, decision-making, and union of two equal partners. Instead of looking at your relationships that way, you’ve looked at them as things that you need to run, control, and perfect. It’s not a healthy way to live, for you or your partner, and it’s something that’s always going to ruin your relationships until you learn to start prioritizing balance.