1. If she smokes, it’s an instant turnoff for me.
“If she smokes, it’s an instant turnoff for me.” My dad, mom, grandma, grandpa, and most of my aunts/uncles smoke (or smoked…) and I can’t stand the shit anymore.
A party girl is a turnoff for me too. I don’t drink anymore for several reasons and I’m done dealing with that lifestyle from anybody. I don’t care if you drink a bit, but I’m not going out to bars etc. and partying with you while you get shitfaced 5 days a week.”
2. Playing hard to get.
“Playing hard to get or acting uninterested. I’m 30, I don’t have time to keep courting you to see if you come around. If you’re not clearly in to me on the first date there won’t be a second.”
3. Seeming uninterested.
“Seeming uninterested or just plain bored of things I like to do.”
4. She says or does things to ‘test the relationship.’
“She says or does things to ‘test the relationship’ or ‘see how I would react.’
Easy, I leave or state ‘You should go’ if at my house.”