4. At first I told her to stop and she said ‘why, you gay?’
“An ex pushed me into sex way before I was ready. She found out I was a virgin and wanted to take it so bad. We were cuddling at night and I was behind her, popped a hard-on because cuddling and she grabbed my dick and pulled it into her, shoved me on my back and started riding me. At first I told her to stop and she said why, you gay? I wound up just lying there. After 10 minutes I didn’t come, and she got all upset. A week later I found out she blew four dudes at a party in one night. Broke up with her for it. Should have told someone about the rape. Gave me some serious trust issues with future partners.”
5. She told me if I didn’t have sex with her she’d scream and tell everyone I tried to rape her.
“I was 17, she followed me into a bathroom at an extracurricular activity and told me if I didn’t have sex with her she’d scream and tell everyone I tried to rape her.
So she raped me. I told one of my mates about it and he was all ‘dude, that’s awesome,’ ‘she’s hot AF,’ ‘how was she,’ and I realized nobody would take me seriously so I shut up.
I’m asexual, have identified as such since before this incident, and I’m 22 now. However now I can’t be alone with a woman because it freaks me out too much. I’ve told three therapists about it, and all fucking three of them have tried to tell me I’m not asexual it’s just a byproduct of what happened. So I quit trying.
I never plan on bringing it up again with anyone.”
6. I had never felt so helpless before and I felt like shit.
“Class was canceled, she wanted to go to lunch I said sure why not she was older than me by a year, I was a sophomore. we stopped by her house and she had to get money since I was broke she told me to come inside while she grabbed some things I sit on her bed and wait and she barges in there wanting to fuck me I tell her no I don’t want to lose my v card til I’m married she jumps on me forces herself on me and I just kinda freeze up let her do her thing and leave we never went out to eat she just wanted sex. I had never felt so helpless before and I felt like shit. I used to be ignorant and believe that it couldn’t happen to guys. I have completely changed my thought process; fuck anyone who does this.”