14 Betrayed Ladies Who Were Told By The ‘Other Woman’ He Was Cheating Reveal Exactly What Happened

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Jenny Woods
Jenny Woods

1.

Thanked her. She was a friend of mine. Proceeded to let everyone know they were awful and never spoke to either of them again.

— txstmptrss77

2.

i had a girlfriend who hooked up with a close friend. I broke up with her, and while him and i joked about it that day, i decided to cut him out of my life because i couldn’t trust him anymore.

— daswef

3.

Man. The Other Man. My ex-fiance cheated on me with a man. (He was a deeply religious closeted gay man)

I actually was grateful the Other Man called me, because I had been suspicious that my fiancé was gay and it confirmed it for me.

— maryjanesandbobbysox

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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