Love is found in the wind. In the first fresh breath of morning air. In the silence of dawn, when the sun first starts to peek above the clouds.
You only have one heart and one life. And at the end of the day, you will be stuck with your choices and chances that you took or didn’t take. Choose wisely. And most importantly, always know that your heart is sacred. And it belongs to someone just as sacred and beautiful as you.
You will ruin your 20s by assuming that all of your friends are ahead and you are behind, because your relationship statuses are so different.
Find a person that always makes you feel missed when you’re not around. Always makes you feel beautiful when your insecurities rise up. Always makes you feel valuable. Always makes you feel wanted. Always makes you feel loved.
When you put your best foot forward and something doesn’t work in your favor or turn out as expected, you don’t analyze what you did wrong fixate upon the thing you can’t change you just learn from it. You move forward. And you hope the next time around it’s a better outcome. And when it’s right everything simplistically fits together and do better you learn to be grateful for all of it.
You should look forward to date nights, not dread them. You should be eager to call your person, not keep putting it off.
Because she isn’t scared off by difficulties. When you are struggling, she will be there offering a steady hand to hold. When you are upset, she will listen and console you.
Date someone who loves books. Someone who takes you on magical journeys with all of the tales that they can tell and all of the stories they have read. Someone who is gentle and empathetic as they are full of depth
She takes risks. She believes in second chances. She hasn’t given up on herself yet — and she isn’t going to give up on you either.
Someone who believes in authenticity over sending mixed signals because they aren’t afraid of their own feelings.