I stopped letting another flawed human being with the same insecurities make me feel like I have a lot of work to do so I can measure up.
Packets of green tea, organic tofu snacks, and hand sanitizer! I am a glamorous New York City woman! JK, no, I am always carrying just a bag of garbage.
The truth is the wrong ones don’t care about losing you. Their lives go on with or without you. They don’t think you add anything special to their lives.
This post is for people who are like me: sorta broke (but ~woke~), sorta lost, and sorta hate using the term “adulting” because you seem to be so damn bad at it. Am I making enough money? Is this the right career move? When’s the last time I got my teeth cleaned? Sh*t rent was due yesterday. I’m broke, but wanna go to Sweetgreen?
Sometimes it feels like you have everything but it also means nothing. Sometimes it feels like you’re only putting on a show and now you’re running out of ideas.
This is your key to a ~*life changing*~ work experience.
Don’t come over to ‘Netflix & chill’ — make him take you out on a proper date. Don’t chase him down all the time — let him do some chasing himself. Love is the answer. It’s the solution.
Something as simple as an e-greeting card every now and then can help build the connection between you both in a long distance relationship.
When you make the choice not to fight the currents of your feelings you allow them to take you where they need to and moving forward becomes a gentler process. Remember always to move at your own pace.
You have to make changes if you really want to see a difference. And those changes can only come from you.