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Fall in love with your life. Fall in love with yourself. And choose to be picky. Because being picky just means that you’re holding out for something great – for real, sweep you off your feet love.

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It doesn’t mean I’m head over heels for you or you’re the person I want to have my babies with. So relax.

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I’ve been in New York for almost a year now, and I have come to one definitive conclusion about how to approach dating in the city: don’t. When I first arrived here with my Friends inspired expectations and suitcase full of clichés, I threw myself into dating like I’d throw myself into a pool filled with $20 bills—hastily and greedily, with an abundance of enthusiasm and gratuitous groping.