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Whether your mother died while you were a child, unexpectedly, or after a long bout with cancer like mine, there’s something not right about getting married without having her there beside you.

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PISCES: You aren’t sure whether you believe in the concept of marriage as a whole. You’ve seen too many messy divorces to think of marriage as a good thing.

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Oh don’t worry, they’re happy tears.

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It’s important for you to be with this person for a while before committing to marriage. That way, you will see them at different points along their journey.

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SAGITTARIUS: You’re going to serve the tastiest drinks and keep the party going all night long. 

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It makes me wonder whether these milestones society deems important make a difference after all, whether they will truly bring me happiness or only the illusion of happiness.

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My fiancée and I were supposed to get married on May 15. That… did not happen.

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Bridesmaid to my wife on our wedding day: “Statistically you are now 3 times more likely to die at the hands of your new husband than a stranger.”

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CAPRICORN: When you find someone who matches you on an intellectual level and challenges you every single day. 

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Whether or not your wedding becomes a faded memory or a loved fantasy is your choice.