How does one stop blaming oneself for not being good enough? How does one love again, after her heart is scarred?
A lot of us, myself included, don’t always take the time to appreciate our friends; making sure to value the people who rule and discard the people who suck.
6. The love you take is equal to the love you make, and the same goes for pain.
I choose to believe that people who don’t love at all are non-existent. Because that’s not possible.
1. Do your close friends have other girlfriends? At this stage in life every girl should have acquired a close group of girlfriends. It is always a red flag for me when a girl doesn’t have that. WHY?
Thanks to necessary dates and yearly presents and romantic getaways, relationships are thought to cost much more than singledom.
Not in the hesitant way that understands the real possibility of failure yet continues to spitefully reach and claw and bite and grab.
I sat quietly throughout the discussion, writing in the notebook I always carried with me. I realized that I knew it; I knew the secret. I knew what being “in love” was, how to identify it, how to track and measure it, and most importantly, how to apply my formula to real relationships to find out why some succeed and some fail.
When that little voice rears it’s ugly head and tells you at the most mundane moment: but you don’t really love them.
10. People that quote “if you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best” on social media because that is a RED FLAG.