You have him but you need to love yourself more.
You’re going to accuse him of things he’d never do. And you know he’d never do them, but that doesn’t matter. That doesn’t silence the paranoia in the back of your brain. And when you make unfair accusations, he’ll get offended. He’ll hate that you don’t trust him.
Now it’s hard for me to be hopeful because people make me cynical. I still don’t understand how someone can go from texting you every day to not texting you at all and not explain why. I still don’t understand how someone can decide to drop you without giving you a valid reason.
If you know there’s something we’re super sensitive about, don’t push the envelope.
Let your fears burn to ashes and your old choking memories wither like dead weeds, because the past does not determine the future. Allow your disappointments, losses and sufferance, to transform you, because what was and what is are two different things.
You keep your heart tightly locked. Any information that could be considered personal is something you carefully guard. You’d rather ask new friends, acquaintances, or romantic partners about themselves.
Find a way to enjoy your “me time.” Relationships are easier when you have a vibrant life outside them.
Always remember, you were something before you were his nothing.
ESFJ and ISFJ: Because you’re used to giving more than you get back.
What’s the good, and what’s the bad?