But getting to know someone takes time, and friendship alone is something that needs to be watered, not a seed that magically sprouts overnight.
I get it. I’ve been there. Actually, I am there. I am one of those people that no matter who it is, I have a hard time trusting them.
Sure, you can comfort this person and teach them what real love is, but you cannot change their mindset.
My father was not nor is he now, a monster. He was however, with me, extremely cold and emotionally unavailable.
It’s never you that I don’t trust – it’s the instability of feelings. And emotions. And … well, life.