You keep your heart tightly locked. Any information that could be considered personal is something you carefully guard. You’d rather ask new friends, acquaintances, or romantic partners about themselves.
She always has her eyes open. She always has her guard up. Just in case. Because it’s better to be too cautious than too careless.
You’re going to accuse him of things he’d never do. And you know he’d never do them, but that doesn’t matter. That doesn’t silence the paranoia in the back of your brain. And when you make unfair accusations, he’ll get offended. He’ll hate that you don’t trust him.
I mean that I’m wary of being replaced. That I don’t think as highly of myself as I should. That I’m worried about you finding someone that gets you better than I do, that treats you better than I ever could.
ESFJ and ISFJ: Because you’re used to giving more than you get back.
But getting to know someone takes time, and friendship alone is something that needs to be watered, not a seed that magically sprouts overnight.
I am worth sticking around for.
If it comes for you with
with sharpened teeth,
with tongue reaching-
it is coming to devour.
Do not make it into something
I get it. I’ve been there. Actually, I am there. I am one of those people that no matter who it is, I have a hard time trusting them.
So promise me you’ll be honest, even if it hurts me, even if it breaks us. Promise me you’ll be honest even if it’s unnecessary, even if it means nothing.