All of the love that you’ve given to him has been tainted and reciprocated back to you in the form of pain.
To put it simply: Virgos are practical, Geminis are dreamers. This relationship doesn’t work because it’s just an endless stream of mixed messages, confusing signals, and misaligned expectations.
Toxic people are very good at manipulating you. They may say one kind thing or act in a way but then it’s immediately followed by mistreatment.
They don’t mention that you must remember who you are. The you before someone stole from you and tried to tell you who or what you were.
When love is raw and real and genuine, it’s not going to feel so dark, so lonely. You aren’t going to feel so alone while lying next to someone who you think loves you. You’re not going to feel like the only person in the relationship. You’re not going to feel like you’re the only one trying. Like you’re the only one who actually cares.
Allow yourself time to grieve. Be gentle with your own heart. Don’t scold it, don’t tell it it should have known better.
You never have to compete with anyone – and a healthy partner would never want anyone who they truly love and cherish to feel like they’re competing with anybody anyway.
I love myself. Truly and always, I love myself. And for the first time in a long time, I am putting myself first.
Never settle for late night messages.
Never settle for ecstatic highs and devastating lows. With nothing in between.
You think that every person who comes into your life is meant to be your lover.