He knows you deserve more and he’s scared you’ll find it so he keeps you hanging on by being the one who cares less because the one who cares less always has the most control. He is manipulating you. He is doing what he can to make you stay, to beg for his attention, to make you feel like you need him.
To The Girls Who Deserve Better
Keep your head up, princess, you’re stronger than that. Let the tears flow, but don’t let your tiara fall. This isn’t the end of your fabled love story. In fact, it’s a new chapter.
I would break myself over and over again wondering why I wasn’t good enough, why you didn’t want to stay once the sun came up, why you didn’t want to commit. But I realized it was my own fault.
He’s the one in control and you’re begging for him back. You’re craving his attention, you’re bending over backwards for him, you’re blowing up his phone and he’s eating it all up.
The not-so-quality guys who hurt a Quality girl aren’t stepping stones, they’re little pebbles of dirt. No one looks back at a winding road and remembers dirt pebbles.
I want to tell you it’s admirable how much you try for people you care about. I admire how much you invest in people and what you’re willing to give.
I’m leaving you because I can’t promise you a forever not even a few months, weeks or days. You deserve a girl who loves you whole and devote her life to you. I’m not even close to being like her.
Know that she is a go getter. Know that she is a strong woman. She is resilient. She isn’t with you for fun, or for a fling. She is with you for the real deal. She is with you because she sees something good in you. She is with you because she sees a future. Because you are someone special. And she deserves something special. She deserves someone special.
It’s better to give yourself the love you need than to give your whole heart to someone who will only meet you halfway.
These girls know how to love furiously and passionately and chaotically, they know that sometimes love is not what it had promised to be, sometimes it isn’t even close.