She’s tired of being the girl who believes and makes exceptions and ignores the red flags. She’s tired of being the one who always gets hurt in the end.
Because it is different. I’m a different person. You’re a different person. The impressions we’ve made on each other have molded and formed us into new beings.
You only see it when they step away from the crowd and become who they really are; away from everyone, away from the appearances, away from the pretenses and away from what people expect them to be.
Stop keeping people at arm’s length, and forgiveness far from your heart. Stop thinking you don’t deserve to be light and happy and weightless again. Because you do, sweet thing. You do.
I’ll start doing the things that upset you just to get under your skin. I’ll stop putting effort to be a decent human being. I’ll be lousy with your heart, I’ll be lousy with you in general.
Say yes to imperfection. Say yes to standing up for yourself even if you stand alone. Say yes to taking chances when the only obstacle you are facing is fear.
Accept the woman you are without him. Accept that things will never work out with this one. Accept that your love is made for someone else. Someone you haven’t met yet, and someone you won’t have the chance of meeting if you stay hung up on this guy.
I generally cringe whenever I hear someone say that “everything happens for a reason,” because sometimes things are just incredibly painful and I don’t believe that there is always a greater reason or purpose behind it.
One day you’ll wake up you’ve conquered it all. You may be too emotional to feel that way but know that there will always be a time for healing. A time to accept the fact that it was never really yours to take.
I do like to believe that time does heal all wounds, even those wounds that feel like they may never heal.