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You aren’t sure whether you’re completely wasting your time on this person or whether they simply need a little nudge. You aren’t sure whether you’re fighting for something worthwhile or something wasteful. You aren’t sure whether your heart has the right idea or whether you should start the healing process.

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If you send the first text, you don’t have to mope around, waiting for them to text you. If you plan out the perfect date, you don’t have to worry about whether they picked something you’re both going to enjoy. In a way, doing all the work is easier. 

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You should stop chasing him when you start crying over him. 

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If your feelings for him are as strong as his feelings for you, then a chase will never happen.

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Do not mistake their physical attraction to you as a desire to enter a relationship with you. 

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You have to nudge him to talk to you. Sometimes he drops out of your life. When that happens, you like his posts and upload attractive pictures of yourself to social media in the hopes he will pay attention to you again.

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I still want you. I still have feelings for you. But I am not going to keep chasing after you.

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You don’t get me yet
you get to chase me
and woo-me
and court me
I am not going to simply just lay down
like a prize.

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Your person isn’t the person you’ve been chasing. It isn’t the one you have to convince to stay around. It isn’t the person that has turned your areas of black and white to grey.

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People can sense that kind of desperation a mile away.