I hate our timing. I hate how our timing never aligns. I hate how we never overlap. You’re always single when I’m taken and I’m always taken when you’re single.
The Blind Side
How can single Generation X black women who want love and companionship form normal, functioning loving relationships with a group of emotionally stunted men who are intent on living a second adolescence?
We don’t want our hearts to break, ever, and the only preparation that will protect us from it, is choosing not to love at all.
It may be a little awkward, but don’t let that stop you.
True love isn’t blind love. It isn’t always good times.
You want to give them the best possible life. You want to be the best possible partner. You want to do everything you can to make them proud of choosing you.
I will be the shoulder for your weary head to rest, telling you stories until you fall asleep. I will be the body that helps to lift the weight from you to me. I will be the silence when you have no words to speak, but just to sit next to you in comfort, reminding you that I’m here.
She loves you the way that sunlight loves to thread itself through your window blinds in the mornings.
We perceive pain as weakness but matter of fact is, going through pain and surviving is proof of strength and sustainability.
Smart people give up easily when they fail. They are used to solving problems very quickly compared to others. When they fail at something, they think that something is wrong with them and give up, instead of realizing that it is simply another stepping stone to success.