For chasing your dreams instead of sacrificing yours for his.
Just like everybody else, she’s a human being who wants to be loved and in a great nurturing relationship with a wonderful man.
You are seeing the tendency towards self-criticism for what it is — the product of a conditioned mind and the result of less-than-uplifting life experiences.
She won’t be afraid to tell you when you’re being an ass.
Stop waiting for the right person, right career, right opportunity to fall in her lap.