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Abby Rubenfeld called the impact of the Hardwick case “devastating,” but she put it in perspective and outlined a possible legal challenge to Florida’s sodomy law. The two law students sitting next to me admitted they were afraid to come because people would think they were gay; they didn’t want to get in the TV camera’s range. Well, at least they attended.

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As gay men we should all step back, think about what works for us and our relationships, and realize a homogeneity in sexual practices in the gay community is just another stereotype we can’t succumb to.