I don’t need flowers every day. I don’t need the candles. I don’t need the sparkly presents wrapped in ribbon. That’s not the kind of romance I’m talking about. I’m talking about giving me the time of day. I’m talking about eye contact. I’m talking about telling jokes that make me throw my head back laughing.
Ruining Your Relationships
1. Trying to follow your old “love script.” In other words, comparing what you have to how you think love “should” go. Who should make more money, how you should meet, what they will look like.
The newest dating trend for people who are too afraid of getting hurt.
You’re analyzing hypothetical situations.
I never wanted to be the girl who kept checking her phone while out with friends, because she was waiting for his reply. I never wanted to be the girl who tried on three outfits before leaving the house, because she wanted his attention.
Stop spending all your time in your comfort zone. You do NOT grow in your comfort zone, you don’t better yourself or challenge yourself.
Your need to have the last word.
You can’t concentrate on your work, because you’re distracted by texts from him and thoughts of him. He’s constantly on your mind and it’s making you a lot less productive than usual.
So now you are free, just the way a beautiful soul like yours deserves to be. I will forever hold myself responsible for the damages I have caused.
Some people think you are either born confident or you’re not. But this is not the case.