They have “don’t know what they got ’til it’s gone syndrome”.
She thinks he might like her, but she also is pretty sure he never lets anyone know what he’s really thinking so she can’t be sure.
But I think at the end of the day love is finding someone who simply makes you happy to be alive and values the relationship you do have, whatever that relationship may be.
We all want that life-changing love that makes us believe in something again. But to get there it starts with improving the relationship you have with yourself.
She stopped being so nice because that was her only chance at beating you.
All that text or call or message is when he reaches back out, is a test. A test to see if you’ve learned from the past if you want any hope of him treating you well in future.
“Only dating someone if they were interested in finding someone to settle down with. Not that dating for fun is wrong, but it’s not what I wanted, so why waste my time with people who didn’t want what I want?”
We do not stay the same person and simply choose to not love them anymore, we become a person who physically isn’t able to.
The truth is she doesn’t do boring well. She doesn’t do average.
If you don’t do what they want you to you, they threaten you. They will take things away. They will do anything to manipulate you into doing what they want you to do. and if you don’t play by there rules you’ll pay for it.