It’s okay to want more from them.
Let’s not reject. Let’s not be superior. We are all doing our best.
Someone who is using you will affirm that you are not enough as you are, and put you through the wringer trying to prove your worth.
Because the reality is this: If any community is entirely contingent on your relationship with one other person, it can be temporary.
Don’t let anyone tell you how it has to be.
Just give it time.