Disclosure – there are no magic texts or things you can do/say that will have your ex back in your arms tonight. But hear me out because like most things in life, if you’re willing to play the long game, whatever the eventuality, you really can’t lose.
relationships and dating
I was afraid that if I let him go, he would go off with someone else and then I’d be missing out, alone and always thinking ’that could have been me but I let it go’.
The thing is, often people go in hot pursuit of finding someone else because they think that will fill the void of being without their ex.
I don’t miss you, per say, I think about you, but I don’t cry over you anymore. Instead I keep your memory near my heart, I keep it there when I feel alone in the world and I relish in the fact that despite everything I know what it feels like to have been loved in a world that can be so cold.
It can be hard to admit that you’ve exerted all your time and effort on something …and then find out you have to leave with nothing.
You can never predict what is going to happen in a relationship. You can’t predict what people are going to do.
I also wondered why, when I knew he did all of these things, did I still want to cling to all of that and let go of everything else within my life in pursuit of making this relationship work.