Calling it quits is easier when it was never love. Yet, even then many of us find it difficult to let go. It’s never more difficult, however, than when the person you’re considering giving up on is someone you did love.
Love is not a power play, not roles and dynamics and shoes you must fill. You don’t need to become something better just to have someone’s affection, even if the other person’s intentions are pure. And you can’t make someone change for your reasons, or even the right reasons.
When you’re trying to determine whether or not a relationship is “right” for you, the reality is that you already know the answer – sometimes you just need to hear the question posed in a different way to really acknowledge it.
As a Virgo, your relationship issues will dissolve when you start being a little bit more of a realist about things (and people).
You will never be 100% sure of your partner, and that’s okay. So let go of that breath you’ve been holding and feel the uncertainty, then let that go, too.
11. You feel you’re giving away too much (and getting back too little).
Gemini: You hate routine and fear getting too comfortable means the end of love.
You thought love was enough.
If you’re having trouble in your relationships as a “Hero,” it’s because you’re attracting people who need help, not who want to be loved.
As soon as someone wants something from him, his terror of losing himself is activated and he automatically resists.