I want you to know that you can always choose yourself. I want you always to choose yourself first.
Breathe. Seriously. Just breathe.
You get a chance to relax for a change. He will plan dates. He will pick restaurants. He will send the first text (and double texts). He will do half of the work.
You shouldn’t ever feel like you don’t have your partner’s undivided attention when you need it, but you also shouldn’t expect it from them all the time, particularly when other obligations are ringing off the hook.
Don’t discount the power of making you a priority. You cannot fill another cup if yours is empty. Don’t ever push away the need to fill your cup with love and caring energy.
When was the last time you spent time with your best friend?
If you care about someone, if you truly care, just be good to them. Too many people selfishly take hearts into their own hands and they fail to protect them, they fail to nurture them. Too many people grow comfortable and complacent, they lose sight of what they have.
Whatever it is, I don’t think it is fair of you to blame it on time.
I have a strong heart but an even stronger backbone.