Thinking too much is what created questions. It is what led us to revolutionary discoveries that changed humanity as we know it. If no one ever stayed up late at night and thought about questions that did not have obvious answers, where would our world be?
We assume that by its very nature, a job isn’t meant to be fun. That’s why it’s called a J-O-B. But what if a simple mental could snap you out of boredom, lethargy and negativity — and make you excited, happy and motivated?
Your happiness is your choice. People hurt people and that’s just human nature. If you let it matter, it will matter. You’re in charge of how you let others affect you.
Then I started thinking about rejection, and why it fucking sucks (Or doesn’t suck). Nobody likes rejection, and it sticks to your mind like glue. Was I not good enough? Did I do something wrong? Why didn’t they want me? But, then I thought more and realized that rejection isn’t a bad thing.
Let’s face it – more people today spend time judging and finding reasons to dislike each other than they do finding things they enjoy about each other. It might sound basic, but for every negative thought you have about someone, start thinking of a positive.
If you, like me, have ever hit rock bottom, then you as well as I both know that no matter how much you believe there’s no escape route to the bottomless ditch, that we’re both living proof of life carrying on and things turning out for the better.
Even when you’re angry, try forcing yourself to smile; they (the internet or some scientist of some sort) say that it would make you feel significantly better even when the going gets tough.
Happiness is not an object that sits on your nightstand. It does not wait for you to wake up, to have you put it on after you brush your teeth and put on your watch. Happiness is not an object- it is a mental or emotional state of well-being.