Online Dating Profiles Of The Wise And Famous Johanna de Silentio “ What I’m Doing With My Life: Thinking about my ability and inability to understand the divine transcendent reality, be a good person, live a ‘meaningful’ life. Existing in absurdity, etc.
This Is What Talking To You Is Like Johanna de Silentio “ You want to tell them something simple, the laws of logic or 2+2=4 and they’re debating you in some f-ed up dream logic until you yourself are confused about which way is up. This is what talking to you feels like.
A Non-Exhaustive List Of Things That Trigger My Anxiety Johanna de Silentio “ Hearing noises when I drive my car. Thinking I hear noises when I drive my car. Thinking about hearing noises when I drive my car.
The Two Types Of Guys That There Are Johanna de Silentio “ They think that I am smart and/ or pretty and/ or cute and/ or fun to be around and/ or chill and/ or tolerable but mostly because they either aren’t looking for more than a brunette who is conscious or someone who fits the freakishly-detailed but completely bloodless list they made for themselves when they first started ‘seriously looking.’
8 Considerations When Deciding Whether To Sleep With Someone You Are Only Mildly Interested In Johanna de Silentio “ You won’t get over someone else, if that’s what you’re trying to do. I’ve heard that you can get over someone by getting under someone else, but I’ve experienced the unreality of this claim. Sorry.
Brains Have More Fun Johanna de Silentio “ We wondered whether anyone else in the world emailed back and forth all day about Kierkegaard and Kim Kardashian.
Meeting Someone You Only Know From The Internet Johanna de Silentio “ I wrote a bunch of questions in my notebook, I say I’ll pull it out when the conversation dulls but it never does. We drive to his neighborhood on the other side of the city but don’t go to his house.
All The Things I Did While Waiting For My Ex-Boyfriend To Call Me To Tell Me Something “Really Important” Johanna de Silentio “ Received a text message, “Will you bring the scratch tickets.” Responded with non-sequitur, “He hasn’t called yet but I’m blogging about it.”
Feelings I Had When I Picked Up A Girl Johanna de Silentio “ Wonder if I should seriously consider dating a girl. She was full of compliments and the hook up was about me. I can’t think of one man I have dated who I could say both things about.
How To Define Your Ambiguous Relationship Johanna de Silentio “ Worry that your relationship lacks definition because you are vastly over-invested (you are) (this is the most clarity and insight you will have throughout this whole situation). Spend more time being concerned that things aren’t going to pan out the way you want them to than actually doing anything to cause them to pan out the way you want them to…