The divorced family perspective has helped me to decide what I want for my future. I never want my children to go through a divorce. If I get married then it’s not going to just be thrown out the window at a bump in the road, I do understand that somethings are unfixable, but it has made me know that I will not stop fighting to save a marriage and a family life for any children involved.
People who are drawn to only children are drawn to things that fit outside of a box. They see your weirdness, your walls, your undeniable originality and they don’t chalk it up to you being difficult — they absolutely love it.