Sometimes I feel like my mind can’t really comprehend the games, the mixed signals, the low investment and the tests we put each other through to make sure this is not just another heartbreak in disguise.
Who knows if he meant what he said when he was drunk, who knows if that sex meant anything, who even knows if he’s talking to someone else?? Maybe you’re not the only girl he’s ‘talking to’ but you can’t ask because once again that makes you look fucking CRAZY.
It is the worry that comes with knowing that we live in a generation that is oversaturated with options, that people can leave for the next best thing when something shinier and newer comes along. You see it happen all the time.
If someone says they like you, it’s hard to see it as a big deal because words and feelings are thrown about so frequently that their value becomes lost and meaningless.
People cheat. They lie, they steal, and they let you down.
To telling people how you felt, regardless of what you SHOULD say or not say?
Treat the first date like an interview.
That’s why modern dating is bullshit because it literally kills everything that redeems us from the one thing love overcomes, fear.
She might suck at casual flirting, at one-night stands, at almost relationships — but she would make one hell of a girlfriend.
We’re tired of people who use the work we’re not proud of to judge us.