Don’t get me wrong, heartbreak still hurts. It hurts no matter who you are.
What if these men were quite literally mentally ill and we’re blaming them for a mental disorder without even the consideration of treatment??
Yet buried in my heart remains a wish to understand
Are your sins forgiven because you’re a man?
Do you know what would be the thing to make her genuinely fall for you? That would allow her to be intimate with you in a consensual, and genuinely-desiring-you sort of way? Not being a piece of shit.
Girl, don’t write up every guy because one or several boys didn’t know how to be a man for a woman like you
Don’t put up with men who don’t dazzle you.
Since you are a part of it, you ought to know what rape culture is.
The reality is that there ARE lots of good men in the world.
It’s empowering to feel trusted. It’s an acknowledgment that you think he’s a great guy. Jumping to negative conclusions, being paranoid or consistently doubting his intentions, on the other hand, is offensive to someone trying to earn your trust. He might just withdraw emotionally, because he can’t trust you to believe in him.
Men are at their best when they are giving.