I love working here, and I love reading what people write here even more.
They ask for it too directly.
Maybe you are addicted. But only inasmuch as you’re addicted to caffeine, and reasonable amounts of alcohol.
“Trapping a man will only make him want to break free.”
Let’s trade the term “foreplay” for “coreplay.”
All you want is some degree of reassurance that the room you’re standing in won’t start spinning spontaneously any time in the next few minutes.
Conflict is inevitable, but it isn’t unmanageable—especially if you understand how your partner’s brain is wired.