You’re not allowed to be a full human. Sadness, loneliness, fear, regret, jealousy, any insecurity whatsoever: you’re not allowed to have those. Besides anger; the humans have painted that one as “masculine,” so it’s OK, but only sparingly.
Men: There’s nothing wrong with wanting to draw the lines and boundaries of your sexuality and gender. But there’s one tiny problem. Your obsession with walking the lines of masculinity is holding you hostage. You’re not really free. And I really want you to be.