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Just like everybody else, she’s a human being who wants to be loved and in a great nurturing relationship with a wonderful man.

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She loves with everything she has and she refuses to regret any of it.

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Her love is wild and all-encompassing. It is the piercing rays that almost blinded you when you met eyes with the sun. Her love is loud and cannot be contained.

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You tell him what you are thinking. If you are angry or upset, you tell him what’s going on instead of pretending everything is okay or hoping that he will ‘get’ it.

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She is the girl that knows herself and knows what she needs. She doesn’t look to men for answers. She doesn’t look for men to make her feel whole.

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You say you love me, but you don’t. You don’t love that I’m standing firm on my two feet, that I’ve never felt the need to lean on anyone else, that even when I let you in so willingly, so freely, I still won’t make you my savior. Because I don’t need any saving.

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When you love a girl that’s fiercely independent, you learn that you can love her without changing her, but you still show her how wonderful it can be to be taken care of. And you learn that a woman’s strength does not, in any way lessen yours.

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The woman you should really be with will be strong. Strong enough to stand on her two feet, strong enough to stand up for you, and strong enough to stand up to you.