But then I realized, his hostility was not justifiable. No hostility which makes any person in any relationship feel unsafe is justifiable.
I went to the movies, bought a bucket of unlimited popcorn and didn’t even have to share! I went out for fro-yo afterwards and didn’t have to worry about a guy judging my yogurt to topping ratio. I didn’t have to worry about having to hurry back or having to think about someone else’s schedule. All I had to do was enjoy myself.
You eventually have to stop basing your self-worth on the insecurities of others and start basing it on your own genuine convictions, no matter how long it takes for you to find them.