Thought Catalog

Love & Dating

If I’m Being Honest, I’m Happy We Didn’t Last Forever

girl on mountain

You were gone. But I wasn’t going to let you kill me. Your leaving taught me that I was stronger than I could have ever anticipated. Your leaving taught me that I could be an independent woman, without needing anybody else. Your leaving taught me that love isn’t everything. Your leaving taught me that self love is the most important kind of love I could ever have.

She Used To Love You, Now She Hates You

A girl in love

She used to love you, she used to give you chances like candy, so the fact that she is finally done is a big fucking deal. It means you did something unforgivable. It means you crossed an invisible line. It means you hurt her one too many times.