Do not feel guilty for not fitting into the role he wanted you to play. You made waves where he made a puddle, and when it came to fighting for your love, he was nowhere to be found.
Love and Relationships
Who was the person who had always held my heart and treated it with the utmost care? Who was the person who gently nursed it back to health each time? Who was the person who deserved my gentle heart more than anyone I had given it to? The answer was always there. It was me.
But I want you to know that I could’ve tried to be everything you ever wanted but that would be a happy ending and you got used to sad ones.
Perhaps that’s what love is: you love and you love to the point where none of that other stuff matters, and all you are left with are just fragments of good memories between two strangers.
My grandmother has always said, “Don’t go to bed angry with each other.” This is excellent advice for a long lasting, loving relationship.
We do not stay the same person and simply choose to not love them anymore, we become a person who physically isn’t able to.
She takes risks. She believes in second chances. She hasn’t given up on herself yet — and she isn’t going to give up on you either.
Someone who believes in authenticity over sending mixed signals because they aren’t afraid of their own feelings.
They will make you feel like you are crazy. They will know exactly what to say to make you question your own memory. They will be able to shift and twist every scenario to make it seem like they are completely innocent.
You are never too late for love. Even if you are the last person amongst your friends to marry, still waiting for the right kind of person with a big enough heart and the kind of softness you have needed, don’t settle for anything less than a love that always makes you hopeful.