They will make you incredibly insecure, even though you haven’t done anything wrong.
Love and Relationships
Fall in love with someone who values you and doesn’t make you denigrate your dreams and needs for them.
You should look forward to date nights, not dread them. You should be eager to call your person, not keep putting it off.
You’ll feel the ugliest around boys that aren’t interested. Boys that send mixed signals. Boys that act like they couldn’t care less whether you stay in their life or left.
It hurt more to know that I had trusted him, when he was messing around with someone else behind my back. It hurt more to know that I thought we were on the same page, when we clearly weren’t. It hurt more to know that I cared more. I always cared more.
Date someone who loves books. Someone who takes you on magical journeys with all of the tales that they can tell and all of the stories they have read. Someone who is gentle and empathetic as they are full of depth
Find a person that always makes you feel missed when you’re not around. Always makes you feel beautiful when your insecurities rise up. Always makes you feel valuable. Always makes you feel wanted. Always makes you feel loved.
Now is deciding to get over the fear of sleeping with someone else and leaning into an arm around my waist. Now is actually liking it.
The purpose of a relationship is not to be loved perfectly, or forever. It is not to have our every whim and wish met and fulfilled.
The truth is, you should date someone who not only loves you, but believes in you, and your capability to do the things you strive for in this world.