“You’re not going to change him. Stop thinking you’ll be different than anyone else that’s ever dated him.”
The concept of happiness is misleading in the way that we think if we just cross a few things off on the self-care list we found on Google that we could truly switch our life around and discover happiness but that’s simply not true.
Do I have it all figured out now? Hell no. I don’t think “figuring it out” ever happens.
Remove all non-essentials from your life (start with your closet).
Being introverted isn’t about being weak, it’s about understanding what makes you strong.
Your body feels pleasure, your mind feels happiness, and your heart feels joy.
You gave up. You gave up on me. On us. You gave up when you could have fought.
Recent studies have shown a dearth of social interaction with people you care about and who care about you not only leads to loneliness, but is also linked to a range of harmful physical effects. In other words: A lack of close friendships may be hazardous to your health.
This pain is only right now. This hopelessness is only right now. This humiliation is only right now.
This ‘rescuer’ mindset is all too common, and one that, sadly, has the opposite effect on the man.