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It’s an ability that not everyone has. It is an intentional acquisition. A time-consuming, fervent practice. A decision-based ability that takes a heart.

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You actually become more social. Living alone means if you want friends, you have to go get them. That means actively texting people to come over for dinner and drinks, or putting yourself out there to get invited to go out somewhere.

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If you moved from your parents’ house, and you had a dog, there is a 100% chance that you will facetime your parents just so that you can see your dog, AKA the love of your life.

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You begin to prefer your own company rather than go out. Once you live by yourself, you become very comfortable being alone.

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I may not be as truly independent as I thought I was, but it’s okay to cry for the home that will never truly be mine again – and the fact that I can appreciate the loss of it makes me realize how far I’ve come.

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You’ll quickly learn there’s a reason this process is called a coming of age story.

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I have been learning a lot and I’d like to share some of the lessons which may help you during a pivotal time in your young life.