You’re not a superhero. Stop setting your expectations that high. Instead, let’s take a deep breath and work on incremental change — which everyone knows is the key to success in everything anyway.
Know each other’s love language. Affection is reciprocal and the way you communicate it is vital.
Learn all 360 degrees of every job you have, no matter how low. That knowledge will compound over the years even if it seems trivial or unimportant when you learn it.
“Fighting can be healthy.”
Snooping around. If you have to go through your partner’s emails and text messages, because you don’t trust them, then why are you even with them? You need to find someone you believe would never hurt you.
Because after you’ve fallen, after the easy part is over, the hard part is convincing someone to stay. How do you show them only the parts of you that are worth loving? How do you hide the parts that aren’t?
You know it is not love when you do not enrich each other’s lives or make each other a better person. Does having this person in your life enhance your life? Do you have shared values and priorities, which is a vital part of a long-lasting relationship? Because when you love someone, you respect their values and you have similar priorities in life.
So, if you’re still searching for that epic love, please don’t give up on it.
Don’t look back and wish you could change parts of your past or erase time. Because time wasn’t lost, is never lost in loving.
The Void is here for you, my sweet girl, and it is better than any man. Because it’s a manifestation of nothingness.