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The funny thing is that although I gave myself the labels, I was trying to fit others labels.

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I studied Myer-Briggs. I hated that I got the INTJ type. I got the INFP type. Hated that too. I studied mental illnesses. I worried about having every single one.

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You don’t spend money on people you don’t care about.

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There is no need to brand something you have with another person as ‘seeing.’ It doesn’t mean anything. You either want to be with someone, or you don’t. You’re either in or you’re out

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Scientifically, we are exquisitely unique with our diverse nervous systems. Psychologically, we can be molded.

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We are all unique individuals. It is preposterous to believe that beings as complex as humans can be classified in such a cookie cutter fashion based on their gender, race, or generation.

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We will always be those crazy ex-girlfriends who once loved them enough, or maybe much more enough than they could handle and be deemed as highly sensitive and dramatic beings.

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“People labeled me a spaz. I label myself unbreakable.”

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Because a lot of people secretly love that you’re intimidating and they see how far it’s getting you but they just don’t want it to exist so they can remain in control, so they can remain one step ahead.

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So my advice to anyone is this: Give. Up. Not on yourself, or your dreams, or your life. Give up on other people’s expectations of you, give up on hiding your true self away, give up on doing what you think you should do instead of what you want to do.