“Displaced anxiety” is a Freudian concept; it refers to what happens when people project or deflect their issues onto something irrelevant – something safer.
You don’t know that she continues to stay with him because she doesn’t realize she deserves worlds better.
I want you to know that you and I are not competition. We never were.
I have tried my hardest, but I cannot be okay with ‘her’ and the constant boundaries she seems to cross. Just because she doesn’t have a boyfriend, doesn’t mean mine is available at every call.
Opinions. None of your opinions matter. And all of your facts are wrong. I know a lot of things. But in any one topic there are people who know 1000x more than I do.
Stop associating love to pain, because that’s the root of all evil.
I’m jealous of most of my friends.
These emotions are visitors to the vessel that I am, and I love them, and feel them.
You making her jealous doesn’t make her want to keep you more, it makes her want to let you go, because it drives a huge gap of mistrust between you both.
I am scared our memories won’t be enough and you will replace me.