Generally we, as humans, are advised to only pee in a toilet. If you live in California, you’re advised to pee in the toilet but not to flush. We’re in a drought, so we’re supposed to follow the “if it’s yellow let it mellow” rule. And while they might not admit it, most people pee in the shower, even Kelly Clarkson.
After the initial hot and heavy stage that every couple experiences — when you actually shower, shave, and brush your teeth before each date — things naturally cool off a bit. It’s the stage where you don’t need to have sex to feel close and connected.