To put others down in an attempt to gain attention, validation, or happiness shows how jealous you are of what they have.
The most insecure dudes I know can’t stop telling everyone about how many girls they’re hooking up with, planning on hooking up with, totally wanted by, etc.
It’s nights like these when you feel utterly and completely vulnerable to the world.
As humans we are taught and conditioned to behave as though we have everything together — even when we don’t.
The thing about this is that it could really go either way: you could end up having a great time and making a ton of new friends in the process, or you could end up sitting by yourself in the corner sipping a shitty light beer and talking to the house pet.