We say the word “cheating” because affairs are much like cheating the system—the universal system of love and respect and trust.
Love has rules between you and I. I can text you at work because she’s not around. When you are with her, my number gets blocked for fear of my name popping up on your phone.
People cheat because that’s the path that feels most aligned with them at that moment in time.
There are beautiful ways to welcome forgiveness in your relationship and really work through this tough space, you just have to be willing to move forward and grow (together).
Don’t just watch those flags wave in the wind. Acknowledge them and, if necessary, pull them out.
She is not the one to blame here. It is your lack of control that begs the question: do you enjoy causing gunshot wounds to my heart?
You shouldn’t take him back when he cheats.
That girl, you kissed from one drunken night.
I was forced to face reality: we were a secret, we were not allowed, I was a mistress, he was a cheater.
What I did was not only hurtful but easy, in a cheap way.