It is possible to be the girl who’s independent, and still depend on the guy she loves. It is possible to be the woman who’s strong, and even stronger with her man by her side.
You would never sacrifice your dreams, your happiness, or your sanity in order to stay in a relationship. You realize there are certain things that matter more than love.
I am obsessed with my sense of freedom. Like many women, my whirlwind of failed romances left me fearful and insecure. What’s wrong with me, I thought. Am I too much? Am I too difficult? Am I not worthy of love?
Let her bloom.
You will hate yourself at times, because you never thought you would be the girl who wanted to die because of a boy.
Intelligent girls refuse to take part in drama. They do not want to fight for your attention. They do not want to decipher mixed signals.
They become brainwashed by people who advise that they will “lose themselves” in some capacity if they have a partner, or start building a family.
Even the strongest girls break down. When they’ve had enough, when they’ve been strong for too long and they just can’t do it anymore.
It means that if your path is filled with roadblocks, you either drive through them or find another road.
In all honesty, it’s a risk to go after a woman like this.