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Everyone deals with unimaginable pain in their own way, and everyone is entitled to that, without judgement.

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While many see it as an end state, I choose to see it as a process. Perfection has no finish line, therefore it can never be measured. It is a constant journey made up of daily steps.

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2. You try to fit the homonormative gay ideal.

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Fight for that love and start from within – and with that, you will see that he will come, because he is attracted to that flame.

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What are you willing to tolerate in terms of your career, love life, friendships, or life in general? How much are you willing to accept? Me?

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And if I want to try being a waitress for the sheer fact that I think the work that gets you knee-deep in the human experience is more important than work that pays you well, and you want to dub me an idiot for that because I don’t have to do it, then so be it.

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And you, you who will fascinate me until the very essence of you permeate the molecules that make up my body, until all my atoms rearrange to revolve around you; I want you.

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It’s okay to stray from your planned conception of the future.