Virgo: You need to work on not letting your insecurities get the best of you.

You want someone who loves you the way you’ve seen everyone around you be loved, because it suddenly seems like everyone’s capable of finding it but you.

That seven years drained me, and honestly I didn’t think I had it in me even. Well, I was wrong.

There have been points in my life where I wanted serious commitment — the exclusive relationship, the cute Instagram photos, soft talks in bed that go well into the wee hours of the morning; all of the mushy stuff that…

I know a few lovebirds who’ve met their soul mates on dating apps. I know even more lovebirds who’ve met their soul mates on Instagram, Facebook and Linkedin.  

We continue to live life in the same way and hope that it will somehow lead to different results.

That’s why each moment with someone we meet on vacation feels more special and more extraordinary. You’ll be surprised at how candid, open and honest you can be with someone, knowing that this person might soon disappear into a faint memory.

In order to find love as the first born you need to take a step back and trust others.

I fell in love a bunch of times in my life. And then, one day, I fell in love for real.

No matter how much you want to tell guys you’re “not playing games” or “not to bother messaging if they’re just DTF”, don’t. Your ruling out a lot more than the DTF’s by doing so.